Serious rededication
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something. As of last August I was 130lbs and holding. Things were ok and I was happy with my body in most senses. Then the hurricanes hit. Living in FL, and so close to it all, it hit hard on the heart and I think deperession kicked in. I had no energy, no will and just didn’t care. Add to that a heavy work load and lots of overtime. And, add to that – shear laziness and lack of willpower. From August to November I gained at a rate of 1lb per week. In november I gained control and held steady on the weight thru the holidays. But I’d gained 15lbs. In January I rededicated to the gym. I’ve been going 3 times a week and things have been progressing with strength. I also tried rededicating to food, but that only lasted about 2 weeks and then its all gone to hell. In the last 3 weeks I’ve gained an additional 5lbs. Either I’m hormonally messed up – or I’m in denial. (FFID is probably the issue, and I admit it). So, as of today: I’m getting up 1/2 hr earlier and hitting the exercise bike. I’m also going to dedicate to ride for 1/2 hr at night before bed. For a total of 1hr a day. My goal is to do this 6 to 7 days a week. I’m returning to low carb/low cal. Its gonna be hard to kick the chocolate habit, but it must be done. Still plan to hit the gym 3 times a week (minimum) for those workouts. The hardest part will be controlling the appetite. But it must be done. I’m currently at 150lbs and this is the highest I ever remember being (asside from post pregnancy). Thank god for all my previous hard work, as I’m still in size 8 clothes – but they are getting tigher and I’m getting scared. I need help.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something. As of last August I was 130lbs and holding. Things were ok and I was happy with my body in most senses. Then the hurricanes hit. Living in FL, and so close to it all, it hit hard on the heart and I think deperession kicked in. I had no energy, no will and just didn’t care. Add to that a heavy work load and lots of overtime. And, add to that – shear laziness and lack of willpower. From August to November I gained at a rate of 1lb per week. In november I gained control and held steady on the weight thru the holidays. But I’d gained 15lbs. In January I rededicated to the gym. I’ve been going 3 times a week and things have been progressing with strength. I also tried rededicating to food, but that only lasted about 2 weeks and then its all gone to hell. In the last 3 weeks I’ve gained an additional 5lbs. Either I’m hormonally messed up – or I’m in denial. (FFID is probably the issue, and I admit it). So, as of today: I’m getting up 1/2 hr earlier and hitting the exercise bike. I’m also going to dedicate to ride for 1/2 hr at night before bed. For a total of 1hr a day. My goal is to do this 6 to 7 days a week. I’m returning to low carb/low cal. Its gonna be hard to kick the chocolate habit, but it must be done. Still plan to hit the gym 3 times a week (minimum) for those workouts. The hardest part will be controlling the appetite. But it must be done. I’m currently at 150lbs and this is the highest I ever remember being (asside from post pregnancy). Thank god for all my previous hard work, as I’m still in size 8 clothes – but they are getting tigher and I’m getting scared. I need help.
I completely sympathize and empathize, JayJay — I am right there with you on the rededication. I am now 21.5 lbs above my goal weight and am unhappy about clothes not fitting. It’s been three years since I’ve used FitDay for tracking, but since I couldn’t get myself back in the groove of keeping a paper food journal, I am enjoying the novelty of FitDay and the slight obsession with playing with all the numbers and reports. It has worked to help keep me on track for the last week — at least according to FitDay, I have taken in less calories than I have burned. So we’ll see what the next few weeks bring. I have set a goal of weighing 150 by June 15. There is no reason in the world that I can’t do it. I have also started a cardio kickboxing class — just to throw something completely different into my exercise routine. Maybe some kind of novelty or shake-it-up thing might work for you too — with either food, exercise or tracking? Is there anything in particular that’s worked for you before that you haven’t done in a while? Or some new exercise class like Pilates or something to give you something new to focus on? I find it easier to get excited about something new than something that’s grown "old hat." Just throwing out ideas here. I know it must be tough for you to be going through, but if anyone here can take matters in hand and get back to basics and a good healthy food and exercise plan, it is you. And I am here cheering you on. Mary
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something.
Jay Jay, I’ve been around here long enough for me to know you have strength of mind, and I have no doubt that you can turn around your current situation. I know what it’s like to gain even faster than you’ve been doing, and to grow out of clothes that I’d been wearing happily. It’s scary and depressing. I’m glad married life is making you content, but come on now, you know what you have to do. janice
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something.
Hi jay jay, It’s great that married life is good. We all hit the wall, at least 99% and we are experts in carrying on if only we can get going again. It needs a big push to start and stick for the first week or two and I know you will do it. You have been a good mentor with the rest of us and no mincing words. i took a number of measures to get back on track and that’s the best I can do. Increased size of dumbell weights. Started walking. Stopped snacking . Got rid of toxic relationships and try to be straught and upfront about things. At least is I have a fat ass, I’ll have a clear head. maybe DH will join you until you get rolling. — Diva ***** The Best Man For The Job Is A Woman
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I need help.
Hey JayJay– I think we’ve all gone through something similar at some point in our lives. There’s no use beating yourself up for it. You took a first step by making a plan–now all you have to do is stick to it. Is DH and DS joining you in riding or gym? They can help keep you motivated and on track. And you did very well before on the lower carb WOE, so going back to it is a step in the right direction as well. And when you lost/maintained before you had a specific goal–do you have a new goal on which you can set your sights? Swearing off chocolate never worked for me, so I made room for it in my WOE–Hershey’s kisses, sucked slowly, not chewed, work wonders for my sweet tooth. Good luck, JayJay Amy
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something. As of last August I was 130lbs and holding. Things were ok and I was happy with my body in most senses. Then the hurricanes hit. Living in FL, and so close to it all, it hit hard on the heart and I think deperession kicked in. I had no energy, no will and just didn’t care. Add to that a heavy work load and lots of overtime. And, add to that – shear laziness and lack of willpower. From August to November I gained at a rate of 1lb per week. In november I gained control and held steady on the weight thru the holidays. But I’d gained 15lbs. In January I rededicated to the gym. I’ve been going 3 times a week and things have been progressing with strength. I also tried rededicating to food, but that only lasted about 2 weeks and then its all gone to hell. In the last 3 weeks I’ve gained an additional 5lbs. Either I’m hormonally messed up – or I’m in denial. (FFID is probably the issue, and I admit it). So, as of today: I’m getting up 1/2 hr earlier and hitting the exercise bike. I’m also going to dedicate to ride for 1/2 hr at night before bed. For a total of 1hr a day. My goal is to do this 6 to 7 days a week. I’m returning to low carb/low cal. Its gonna be hard to kick the chocolate habit, but it must be done. Still plan to hit the gym 3 times a week (minimum) for those workouts. The hardest part will be controlling the appetite. But it must be done. I’m currently at 150lbs and this is the highest I ever remember being (asside from post pregnancy). Thank god for all my previous hard work, as I’m still in size 8 clothes – but they are getting tigher and I’m getting scared. I need help.
The past is simply a memory, and memories can be false. What is important is what you do from here on out. Every day, every hour sometimes, you must be aware of what you are doing and do what is right. They say it gets easier. I don’t know. I think instead you get stronger. Get strong, stay strong. Good luck. We’ve all been there, we’ve all done it. You are not alone. Keep us informed. — Dr. Dickie Skepticult member in good standing #394-00596-438 Poking kooks with a pointy stick Proud member of the, "Vast right-wing conspiracy."
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Go get ‘em JayJay! Your plan sounds solid and we know you can do it. Work it day by day or even hour by hour if you need to.
If only the motivation of Day 1 would stay for greater than a couple weeks. That always seems to be my biggest trouble – making it past day 5 or 10… Please tell me your MIL won’t be visiting anytime soon? You may have to ban her
Oh goodness…. I have until April and then they will be here. This time bringing friends with them so they won’t be "sleeping" at our house, but will most likely be eating at our house for most meals. On top of that – I guess about the same time my father and stepmom will be in town (although I haven’t spoken to him in 6months) and my brother and his wife will also be in town. That’s gonna be a few weeks of hell. :)
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something.
Go get ‘em JayJay! Your plan sounds solid and we know you can do it. Work it day by day or even hour by hour if you need to. Please tell me your MIL won’t be visiting anytime soon? You may have to ban her
— Walking on . . . Laurie in Maine 207/110 60 inches of attitude! Start: 2/02 Maintained since 2/03
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DH goes with me about once a week. That has its pluses and minuses. Usually I end up cutting my workouts short because he has created some diversion that has us waylayed for time or something. In short – I’d rather go alone, I get a better workout. :)
DH and I have had the same issues. What we’ve done to deal with it is that I go to the gym earlier (right from work) and he meets me there. I realize that won’t work for most people but it’s not a problem for us to use two cars. Jenn
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something.
I totally feel for you. I know others on the Gulf coast who are having hurricane related stress. The combo of stress, fatigue, and hormones is just a killer. I think you just get to a point where you realize it’s not going to subside so then it’s time to deal with the crappy hand you’re being dealt right now. Your plan sounds like a good one though. The fact that you’ve made a plan is a positive step. Jenn
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I need help. Hey JayJay– I think we’ve all gone through something similar at some point in our lives. There’s no use beating yourself up for it. You took a first step by making a plan–now all you have to do is stick to it. Is DH and DS joining you in riding or gym? They can help keep you motivated and on track. And you did very well before on the lower carb WOE, so going back to it is a step in the right direction as well. And when you lost/maintained before you had a specific goal–do you have a new goal on which you can set your sights?
DS goes with me to the gym – to hang at the skate park. I still haven’t gotten him into the "preteen" fitness program they offer that will allow him to join me in the gym itself. DH goes with me about once a week. That has its pluses and minuses. Usually I end up cutting my workouts short because he has created some diversion that has us waylayed for time or something. In short – I’d rather go alone, I get a better workout. :) Swearing off chocolate never worked for me, so I made room for it in my WOE–Hershey’s kisses, sucked slowly, not chewed, work wonders for my sweet tooth.
right now I need to illiminate chocolate. I can’t stop at just one. And I do eat it mindlessly at times. So, if I can’t handle it, I need to try to go without it for a period of time. Not forever. But for now. :) Good luck, JayJay
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something. Jay Jay, I’ve been around here long enough for me to know you have strength of mind, and I have no doubt that you can turn around your current situation. I know what it’s like to gain even faster than you’ve been doing, and to grow out of clothes that I’d been wearing happily. It’s scary and depressing. I’m glad married life is making you content, but come on now, you know what you have to do. janice
Thanks for the encouragement Janice. I can say, I don’t think its married life that has made me "content" that caused the weight gain. I can say it was the overwhelming stress of the hurricanes and the guilt that came with it, as well as the stress from the work load. Then being tired and lack of energy from the 1. depression over the stress and 2. the workload. I’d get home from work and just want to go to sleep and not deal with life. Then there are these abnormal hormonal issues I’ve been having that I need to get to the doctor about. Anyhow – that is over and it is time to regain control over eating habits. The exercise isn’t so much the issue as the eating. One day down – many more to go.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Maybe some kind of novelty or shake-it-up thing might work for you too — with either food, exercise or tracking? Is there anything in particular that’s worked for you before that you haven’t done in a while? Or some new exercise class like Pilates or something to give you something new to focus on? I find it easier to get excited about something new than something that’s grown "old hat." Just throwing out ideas here. I know it must be tough for you to be going through, but if anyone here can take matters in hand and get back to basics and a good healthy food and exercise plan, it is you. And I am here cheering you on. Mary
I can second the idea of different exercises. During the winter I get bored just lifting weights and using the treadmill. I’ve been dusting off the exercise videos and trying different exercises to give myself some variety. I’ve done Pilates, yoga, exercises on the ball and bosu ball. If I could locate my step I might even try some of the old step aerobics videos. I even dragged out the manual for the treadmill and punched in some new walk/run programs to follow. Hopefully the people who rushed to the gym at the new year will soon thin out and I can start going there again. I keep checking out their parking lot on my way home and it’s still fairly crowded. Beverly
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something.
You’ve done it before and I’m sure you’ll do it again. BTDT – it’s tough getting back on track. Just keep at it and don’t let a bad day get you down. I started a new exercise program a couple weeks ago and immediately gained a couple pounds:( That resulted in a little over eating but I’ve been able to take control again this week. Gawd…..why are we rewarded with a weight gain when we increase the exercise! Glad to see you posting again. Beverly
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Maybe some kind of novelty or shake-it-up thing might work for you too — with either food, exercise or tracking? Is there anything in particular that’s worked for you before that you haven’t done in a while? Or some new exercise class like Pilates or something to give you something new to focus on? I find it easier to get excited about something new than something that’s grown "old hat." Just throwing out ideas here. That is a good idea and this is what I’ve done. Bought a notebook tonight – for 4 different kinds of trackign 1. Weekly measurments of key body parts and weekly weight/BF average 2. Daily weight/BF for averages 3. Exercise 4. Food
That sounds great and might be just what you need — as they say, if you don’t measure it you can’t improve it. I’m not religous enough for fitday and to spend the time.
I’m fascinated by how much the program has improved in the past three years — and I ended up downloading the PC version so that I don’t have to do it online. Not to mention that calorie counting is a bit difficult with the amount I eat out.
I’m finding this a little troublesome too – so I’m just trying to describe the food accurately and it seems to figure out numbers that make sense. But my lunch goals if I do go out/eat in is for just a house salad and avoid bluecheese dressing.
Sounds good. I like salads out too. The exercise thing – I’m trying to do the 2, 30min sessions on the bike. I do enjoy my current gym schedule and haven’t had a problem with that. That was one positive change I made in January that I’ve kept up with for about amonth now.
That’s great and is a success you can build on — your "foundation." I know it must be tough for you to be going through, but if anyone here can take matters in hand and get back to basics and a good healthy food and exercise plan, it is you. And I am here cheering you on. Thanks Mary, that’s nice to hear from you. :) I’ve always looked up to you with your dedication and success.
Thank you, Jay Jay — I appreciate that. I know you can do this and look forward to reporting our progress together. I can already feel some results from this week’s efforts–especially a mental/emotional change which is the most important to me. But it takes the physical action first, and then the motivation comes. Not always easy to remember and something that newbies seem to struggle with — but it’s true that feeling follows action. Mary
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Maybe some kind of novelty or shake-it-up thing might work for you too — with either food, exercise or tracking? Is there anything in particular that’s worked for you before that you haven’t done in a while? Or some new exercise class like Pilates or something to give you something new to focus on? I find it easier to get excited about something new than something that’s grown "old hat." Just throwing out ideas here. I know it must be tough for you to be going through, but if anyone here can take matters in hand and get back to basics and a good healthy food and exercise plan, it is you. And I am here cheering you on. Mary I can second the idea of different exercises. During the winter I get bored just lifting weights and using the treadmill. I’ve been dusting off the exercise videos and trying different exercises to give myself some variety. I’ve done Pilates, yoga, exercises on the ball and bosu ball. If I could locate my step I might even try some of the old step aerobics videos. I even dragged out the manual for the treadmill and punched in some new walk/run programs to follow. Hopefully the people who rushed to the gym at the new year will soon thin out and I can start going there again. I keep checking out their parking lot on my way home and it’s still fairly crowded. Beverly
I’ve been wanting to try Pilates! I need to look at the library for the videos. Glad you are finding some things to mix it up till the gym gets back to normal! That’s what I love about going to my current gym — it never matters what time of year, etc. because I have my own appointment and if anyone else is working out at the same time, it’s just one other person. No waiting, no thinking, no slacking off — just the kind of place I needed, LOL. Mary
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I completely sympathize and empathize, JayJay — I am right there with you on the rededication. I am now 21.5 lbs above my goal weight and am unhappy about clothes not fitting. It’s been three years since I’ve used FitDay for tracking, but since I couldn’t get myself back in the groove of keeping a paper food journal, I am enjoying the novelty of FitDay and the slight obsession with playing with all the numbers and reports. It has worked to help keep me on track for the last week — at least according to FitDay, I have taken in less calories than I have burned. So we’ll see what the next few weeks bring. I have set a goal of weighing 150 by June 15. There is no reason in the world that I can’t do it. I have also started a cardio kickboxing class — just to throw something completely different into my exercise routine. Maybe some kind of novelty or shake-it-up thing might work for you too — with either food, exercise or tracking? Is there anything in particular that’s worked for you before that you haven’t done in a while? Or some new exercise class like Pilates or something to give you something new to focus on? I find it easier to get excited about something new than something that’s grown "old hat." Just throwing out ideas here.
That is a good idea and this is what I’ve done. Bought a notebook tonight – for 4 different kinds of trackign 1. Weekly measurments of key body parts and weekly weight/BF average 2. Daily weight/BF for averages 3. Exercise 4. Food I’m not religous enough for fitday and to spend the time. Not to mention that calorie counting is a bit difficult with the amount I eat out. But my lunch goals if I do go out/eat in is for just a house salad and avoid bluecheese dressing. The exercise thing – I’m trying to do the 2, 30min sessions on the bike. I do enjoy my current gym schedule and haven’t had a problem with that. That was one positive change I made in January that I’ve kept up with for about amonth now. I know it must be tough for you to be going through, but if anyone here can take matters in hand and get back to basics and a good healthy food and exercise plan, it is you. And I am here cheering you on.
Thanks Mary, that’s nice to hear from you. :) I’ve always looked up to you with your dedication and success.
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JayJay, what is happening is simply a test of just how much you want to be slim. You have proven in the past that you can lose weight, the question is, do you want it badly enough this time.
I gained weight (in the form of muscle mass) when I did boot camp last time. But the detriment was also to my health in the lack of rest I got. I nearly killed myself by nearly falling asleep at the wheel of the car because of exhaustion back then. Yes, getting slim and wanting it badly enough is one thing – but to the detriment of your health is another.
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I’ve hit the wall. In the past 2 weeks I’ve gained another 5lbs. Its really time! I’ve got to do something.
Jayjay: There isn’t much that I can say that hasn’t already been said except – Welcome to the club! You’re human! :) You’ve made a plan of attack and that’s half the battle. The other half is implementation and execution. However, as others have said, you have the resolve to do this without too much difficulty. We have faith in you! Good luck! We’ll be here to support you! Cheers! Alex — VirtualGuy – Edmonton, Alberta, Canada VirtualGuy.at.shaw.dot.ca Website: http://members.shaw.ca/virtualguy
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You can do it, JayJay — you just need to get your head in the right place. It sounds like that’s happening. Keep us posted on how it’s going, okay? Chris 262/130s/130s started dieting July 2002, maintaining since June 2004
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I can second the idea of different exercises. During the winter I get bored just lifting weights and using the treadmill. I’ve been dusting off the exercise videos and trying different exercises to give myself some variety. I’ve done Pilates, yoga, exercises on the ball and bosu ball. If I could locate my step I might even try some of the old step aerobics videos. I even dragged out the manual for the treadmill and punched in some new walk/run programs to follow.
Next bootcamp session starts in 2 weeks.
But that would be a no… :) I’m not up for getting up that early any more. Hopefully the people who rushed to the gym at the new year will soon thin out and I can start going there again. I keep checking out their parking lot on my way home and it’s still fairly crowded.
I started going back again in early January and found it wasn’t that bad. Then again, I go at the 7 – 8pm hour and usually the gyms cleared out by then. And, last summer a new fandangled gym opened taking away many members to our little ‘ol Y. There are some days its fairly busy but if you are willing to work around different machines you don’t end up waiting.
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The past is simply a memory, and memories can be false. What is important is what you do from here on out. Every day, every hour sometimes, you must be aware of what you are doing and do what is right.
Good advice. The last mouthful does not count. The next one does. They say it gets easier. I don’t know. I think instead you get
stronger. I’m sure it doesn’t get easier. I admire those people who manage to get through a major weight loss plan without lapses. And I admire those who worked through the lapses and survived them even more as they point the way for me. Get strong, stay strong. Good luck. We’ve all been there, we’ve all done it. You are not alone. Keep us informed.
Moira, the Faerie Godmother Day 44 of my new Way of Living
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – DH goes with me about once a week. That has its pluses and minuses. Usually I end up cutting my workouts short because he has created some diversion that has us waylayed for time or something. In short – I’d rather go alone, I get a better workout. :) DH and I have had the same issues. What we’ve done to deal with it is that I go to the gym earlier (right from work) and he meets me there. I realize that won’t work for most people but it’s not a problem for us to use two cars.
My flatmate and I have the same issue. I missed my workout because of it this morning. I know that’s partly an excuse. You’ve just strengthened my resolve to go this afternoon even though it will throw his plans into disarray. He said he’d go this evening but I can’t make this evening as I have to work. I have just consulted the class schedule and while there is no particular class I want to do this evening (this morning there was one at the time we agreed to go) there is a water aerobics class a bit later. Perhaps I can swim first and then do the water aerobics class. It’s good to read and post. One gets new resolve. Moira, the Faerie Godmother Day 44 of my new Way of Living
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JayJay, what are you eating that is causing so much weight gain? Is your issue portion control, too much snacking, or WHAT you choose (i.e. the fried vs. the broiled). Have you gone to the store and filled the house with things you CAN eat, and gotten rid of whatever temptations you face? When you open the fridge, is it stuffed with veggies and fruits? For me to be able to control myself, I need a bunch of good choices on hand that I actually enjoy, plus all the sauces, spices, etc. needed to prepare them without a lot of trouble. If I don’t have the salsa and the pickles on hand, I’ll eat the chocolate chip cookies. Mary G.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – JayJay, what is happening is simply a test of just how much you want to be slim. You have proven in the past that you can lose weight, the question is, do you want it badly enough this time. I gained weight (in the form of muscle mass) when I did boot camp last time. But the detriment was also to my health in the lack of rest I got. I nearly killed myself by nearly falling asleep at the wheel of the car because of exhaustion back then. Yes, getting slim and wanting it badly enough is one thing – but to the detriment of your health is another. I remember your boot camp story and you getting up at 4am (or was it 4:15), i thought that it was an incredible feat. I am not saying you have to do the same again, but limiting eating may require a big effort.
JFC….did you actually READ what she wrote????? She said she nearly killed herself due to lack of sleep. But of course, being dead and slim is more important than being alive and overweight, right? Martha
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